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I Didn’T Think I Was Ugly.. Until I Got Almost No Matches On Tinder

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You might not even be ugly. I’ve had a couple women make the first move and ask me out in my life so I know I’m not ugly. On dating apps I’ve had a good

Not getting matches in Tinder

This will never refresh, no matter what I do? She’s been there for ...

I’ve run into a similar problem, but it didn’t happen to me until the new Standouts/Roses feature came out. I used to get a few matches a week and I’ve been using the app for a year now. But pretty much since the new feature got release, I’ve sudden been getting zero

Signed up to give tinder a try. Verified my account, it was a free account version. And I used it successfully for 2 days, got matches, lots of chatting. Then suddenly I wasn’t able to see my matches profiles anymore. Then when I logged on today, it says my account is locked because of certain activity. I didn’t break any rules. Did someone actually report me for no reason at all? It can get very annoying when you get NO MATCHES ON TINDER especially when you’re a good looking dude. Fix these 5 simple mistakes to get more right swipes! Literally almost every Tinder match for me goes like this. And then I don’t receive a reply or they don’t know how to keep the conversation going. What am I doing wrong and how can I improve?

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Guy on tinder is mad I didn’t text back for a day after getting staples in my head and just getting of of the ER, then tells me I’m ran through and not worth it.

Maybe I’m picky but I seem to only get ugly matches

Why does tinder only give me conventionally attractive 10/10s when I never match with them?

My online profiles seem to get very little response. I don’t think it’s my openers or my profile, so I think it’s either my pictures or I am shadow banned somehow. I tried to reset my profiles, even going as far as making a new facebook for Tinder, and yet I still get no desirable matches. I don’t think my pictures are THAT bad, but

After 2 months of tinder gold getting no matches, the day it expires I get a like. I’m done with this app. I don’t think this is due to the nose job, but rather getting older and simply realizing I don’t have the time or energy to worry about that sort of thing. And if someone is being disingenuous about that, they are really fuckin weird anyway. It’s the third time I’m giving Tinder a chance, and it still does this shit. It says I have over 30+ likes but I haven’t got a single match, no matter how much I swiped. I take breaks in between days and I don’t go on a swiping spree, I don’t post explicit photos, nor have I

You’re not going to swipe on someone unattractive to you. If you are not matching with anyone you are attracted to, perhaps it is because you are perceiving yourself as more attractive than you are. I don’t mean any offense by this, it’s just typically how it works. Attraction is relative but maybe dating apps aren’t for you.

Things to know If you’re getting no likes on Tinder, your profile (picture, bio, and preferences) probably isn’t optimized. Swiping too much, being inactive, and avoiding premium features are common mistakes that keep you from getting likes. If you broke the Tinder Community Guidelines, you’re getting no likes because you’re under a shadowban. I don’t think it’s a bug btw, can’t be a bug for this long and would be fixed by this time. I guess if your match deactivates their account, they will disappear from your conversations but then if they decide to restore their account, they will reappear but the conversation history is somehow empty. I understand your frustation, as I don’t get many matches myself, but it seems hard to believe you never get matches. Are you not swiping „right“ enough? Is your profile empty? Do you have grossly offensive things on your profile?

I would say I got 2 matches a week on tinder, 1-2 a week on hinge (which was a much better experience overall imo) and nothing on bumble. Tinder was a lot of very shallow women saying they don’t want hookups, when in reality that’s exactly what they want.

All of this has me feeling really cheated, I don’t understand why I had to feel ugly when I never was. I’m angry I still have to think so many awful things about myself just because my parents decided I was an awful autistic child and was only to be blamed never praised. To this day they still love to tell me how awful I was.

In this article, I’ll walk you through some of the factors that affect your Tinder experience. So don’t worry; you’re not getting matches not

You should know that you can report someone on Tinder for ‚in person behaviour‘ – I didn’t know this until tonight.

Lately Tinder has matched me with people whose profiles I have never seen. I am currently in a small town, and I only get around 20 or so girls to swipe on in a day. But the matches I have been getting I definitely did not swipe right on, and today I got a match with a girl I allegedly super liked who I have never seen before (much less super liked). Has anyone else encountered problems I stopped getting likes when I got Tinder Gold! Since Tinder keeps running these 50% off Sales on Tinder Gold I decided to check it out again. Almost all the women that liked my profile were not women who I would have swiped right on. I also noticed I don’t hardly get any likes with Tinder Gold. If I do it’s very sporadic. Many Italians don’t know English at all, or maybe they can read/understand it, but don’t speak it very well, etc. (Of course not everyone; a lot of young people know how to talk in English, I’m just saying the percentage is lower than many other European countries).

Sup man, I am a dude in a similar situation. Get a decent anount of matches, usually get the girl number, but when it comes to go on a date, it just doesn’t really happen. Usually they cancel the date on the day off or I might get ghosted on the rare occasion. I just got off a year long relationship and am just getting back into dating, but let me tell you a bit about my experience, I never got matches on tinder, and spend most of the time swiping left, and the ones I swipe right on don’t swipe back so I can relate. Also I think finding a compatible person on tinder is rare as tinder is an unhealthy environment for serious dating in general. Reply reply [deleted] • Reply reply Major_Alloy • Reply reply More repliesMore

I don’t know if this is the right sub for this but I just needed to get it out. I never saw myself as ugly before. I never thought I was amazing looking or anything, Don’t start thinking as girls/women as one collective group who all think and act the exact same way. The profiles you’re swiping on are all different people with different personalities who are seeking different things. It’s a numbers game, a minority percentage of people will be attracted to you and that’s true for everyone, there’s no one that everyone finds attractive. That said, you I don’t think you’re ugly at all, but it comes down to what you have in your bio. Usually when someone doesn’t have anything in their bio, or they just have their snap or Insta I tend to swipe left because there is nothing to create a conversation with.

58 votes, 104 comments. trueFor anyone that doesn’t know what Shadow banning is.. it’s basically where people that recreate their accounts several times over weeks/a monthly period will get ‘shadowbanned’ which means you can still see and swipe on profiles but your profile will be invisible to all other users so you will never get matches. People have been saying that Tinder I was getting no matches then put up a single pic of me in a nascar jacket with the bio “I always come first” and I all of a sudden got many matches. Maybe not the most wholesome women but somehow my stupid idea worked.

I’ll be honest I was really pretty as a kid. Especially up until age 7. But as I inched toward puberty (and once it hit) I became this very unattractive person and I still am. My face lost its symmetry, my proportions are all off. I won’t rattle off all my flaws but you get the point. As a kid I didn’t know I was pretty. I was just a kid, I wasn’t aware of how I looked. I was a lot 27M. Am I too ugly for online dating? I’ve been paying for gold for over a year. I get no matches or likes across all of the dating apps I use. Only had one gf briefly my entire life. Getting a date feels impossible. I’m not sure if this is a common problem with Tinder, but I just created my first ever Tinder account today. I didn’t even match with anyone yet. My photos were just completely normal selfies, not even any sexy poses or revealing clothing. A few hours later I got a notification saying that I have been banned from the app due to not following the community guidelines.

You don’t notice more likes, because it only makes your profile more visible to those you’ve already swiped right on. Tinder doesn’t even advertise that it makes your profile more visible to others, so don’t expect that benefit. I never really used Tinder without platinum, but I was happy with my experience.